GBV victims are encouraged to leave abusive relationships, even if they have nothing
As part of Women’s Month activities, the Department hosted high tea against Gender Based Violence (GBV) at the Nespra Centre Methodist Church in Eldorado Park.
The purpose of the event was to recognize the survivors of Gender-Based Violence. Gender-based violence affects mostly women and children across social and economic lines. The scourge is, however, worse in underprivileged and disenfranchised communities, such as the community of Eldorado Park.
Addressing women in attendance Community Safety MEC, Faith Mazibuko, reminded them about the sacrifices of women who participated in the 1956 Women’s March to the Union Buildings in Pretoria, on how they made sure that women in South Africa have all social, political and economic rights.
“The women of 1956 fought for our liberation, which means we are capable of standing up on our own and being united for our people. We can’t let them down”, said Mazibuko.
Local Ward Councillor, Margaret Arnold, reflected on her own experience of gender-based violence. She recalls being in an abusive relationship where she could not see her friends or leave the house freely. Arnold eventually decided enough was enough and she left the relationship, pursuing her education and raising her children in a peaceful environment.
“The abuse did not deter me from who I am. I carried on living, I’m not a victim, I have survived”, said Arnold.
During the meeting an attorney, author, and a survivor of gender-based violence, Denise Wangra, shared her frustrations on how victim of gender abuse are treated when they report cases at the police station.
"Red tape makes it difficult for women to break away", explained Wangra.
The process of opening a case and attending legal process can be strenuous and dangerous for victims of GBV.
She emphasized that the young women in the community do not choose to be in abusive relationships but rather that "they are not exposed to positive situations when growing up", said Wangra.
Closing the high tea, guests were encouraged to take care of their mental well-being despite the issues they may face in life. Victims were also encouraged to "leave even if you have nothing" when in an abusive relationship.
